Before having a sleep divorce, there are various things you can try, depending on what your flash points are. Having separate duvets is helpful if you disagree on tog and temperature, (or if one of you hogs it!), while eye masks and ear plugs can help with light disagreements, snoring and different sleep routines. “When my husband’s snores, I use silicone ear plugs that flatten across your ear. Honestly, the whole building could fall down, and I wouldn’t know,” says Cox.